Discussion Guide: Go, Show Your Love – Week 2 I Can’t Live With or Without You

Prayer

Because the primary goal of our time together is to establish relationships and learn how to walk with one another in all that God has called us to be and do, we’d like to begin by praying for one another. So, does anyone have anything you’d like us to pray for or anything to share regarding how you’ve seen God moving in your life that we can celebrate together?

Opening Question

God Relates to People as Righteous King

When the Lord began to speak through Hosea, the Lord said to him, “Go, marry a promiscuous woman and have children with her, for like an adulterous wife this land is guilty of unfaithfulness to the Lord.” So he married Gomer daughter of Diblaim, and she conceived and bore him a son.
Then the Lord said to Hosea, “Call him Jezreel, because I will soon punish the house of Jehu for the massacre at Jezreel, and I will put an end to the kingdom of Israel. In that day I will break Israel’s bow in the Valley of Jezreel.”

– Hosea 1:2-5

That’s the key. All evil starts with 15 volts. And then the next step is another 15 volts. The problem is, at the end of the line, it’s 450 volts. And as you go along, the guy is screaming, “I’ve got a heart condition! I’m out of here!”
You’re a good person. You complain. “Sir, who will be responsible if something happens to him?” The experimenter says, “Don’t worry, I will be responsible. Continue, teacher.”
And the question is, who would go all the way to 450 volts?

Philip Zombardo, The Lucifer Effect

God Relates to People as Heartbroken Judge

Gomer conceived again and gave birth to a daughter. Then the Lord said to Hosea, “Call her Lo-Ruhamah (which means “not loved”), for I will no longer show love to Israel, that I should at all forgive them.”

– Hosea 1:6

This expresses the unthinkable end of YHWH’s commitment to “show mercy,” for his people have presumed too long upon YHWH’s willingness to forgive…[this] announces the new reality that YHWH’s answer to Israel would now be ‘No,’ where it had previously always been ‘Yes’.

Jerry Hwang, Hosea, An Exegetical Commentary

God Relates to People as Holy Lover

After she had weaned Lo-Ruhamah, Gomer had another son. Then the Lord said, “Call him Lo-Ammi (which means “not my people”), for you are not my people, and I am not your God.
“Yet the Israelites will be like the sand on the seashore, which cannot be measured or counted. In the place where it was said to them, ‘You are not my people,’ they will be called ‘children of the living God.’ The people of Judah and the people of Israel will come together; they will appoint one leader and will come up out of the land, for great will be the day of Jezreel.”

– Hosea 1:8-11

What if God, although choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath—prepared for destruction? What if he did this to make the riches of his glory known to the objects of his mercy, whom he prepared in advance for glory—even us, whom he also called, not only from the Jews but also from the Gentiles? As he says in Hosea:
“I will call them ‘my people’ who are not my people;
and I will call her ‘my loved one’ who is not my loved one.”

Romans 9:22-25

Closing Thought